The Secret to Learning Languages and How Absolutely Anyone Can Do It

The Secret to Learning Languages and How Absolutely Anyone Can Do It The Secret to Learning Languages and How Absolutely Anyone Can Do It Which  class was easier for you in high school: trigonometry or gym?How about chemistry or drivers ed?If youre like most students, you probably struggled most with those math and science classes. And even if you loved the idea of learning a foreign  language and traveling the world, your foreign language class mightve felt like another boring hour at a desk now and  then.Ever wonder what makes some classes a slog and others a breeze?One reason is that when you were a  high school student,  there wasnt really much of a chance youd  use concepts from trigonometry and chemistry every day.You werent learning about trigonometry  so that you could then go out and calculate the cosine of an angle for fun.Instead, you were most likely memorizing concepts just long enough to pass a test,  and then promptly banishing them from your brain.But not so with drivers ed.  Learning how to get behind the wheel without flipping the car isnt only handy for survival, but for many of us its also crucial t o getting to where we want to be in society. If you want to go to the movies, a party, a job interview or the beach, youll  need  a drivers license.Learning to drive a car isnt necessarily any less boring than learning the periodic table, but its a clear means to an end: getting around and doing stuff you really  want to do.The secret to successful language learning  lies in  finding that same sense of motivation. You need to have a real stake in the outcome of your language education, just like you had in your drivers ed classesâ€"and just like you once had, without even realizing it, in learning your first language. How We Get So Awesome at Our First LanguageDrop any healthy baby into any community of human beings anywhere in  the world, and that baby will learn the language that imbues daily life around it.Thats because humans are social animals. Language helps us get what we need from others, understand other peoples needs and, ultimately, organize ourselves into complex, func tional societies.Its likely due to our  basic need to communicate our ideas with one another that our brains come  with all the necessary hardware (our astounding muscular control over our throats, tongues and lips) and software (our innate ability to make sense of linguistic patterns) for language acquisition.From a young age, we become deeply invested in using this hardware and software to keep ourselves alive and happy. Babies cry as a way of signaling their discontent, but as we grow older we get better at expressing what we need through language.Our first language is a crucial  lifeline in a world where were totally dependent on others; its in our best interest to learn  to say Im hungry, for example. So you can understand why its easier for a baby to pick up his or her first language than it is for you to memorize  all the concepts in a trigonometry textbook.But were not babies anymore. How can we harness the tools of early language acquisition to learn new languages as adults ? Below, lets look at some key techniques.Seeing Ourselves in OthersDid you know theres evidence that  babies can identify native speakers of their language before they even speak that language?Just as were born social creatures, we seem to have an ability to distinguish between us and them, or the people from the group we belong to and everyone else. Back in the earliest days of civilization it may have been our best tool for quickly identifying our community from those folks two hills over who were always coming to plunder our crops and steal our livestock.Today, this skill can form the basis of how we see our place in the world, and how we learn to relate to others through  language.For example, theres evidence that we learn more effectively from the people we identify with.As babies and toddlers, we learn just about everything by imitating our parents.  We say I love you after theyve said it to us hundreds of times, and pretty soon were stealing ties or high heels out of their c loset or saying bad words we heard from the adults. We learn how to be ourselves by first copying the people in our own community, our own group.So it should be no surprise that when we speak, we sound like other native speakers of our mother tongue, and many of us use local accents particular to the places we grew up. Theres evidence that we imitate everything from speech patterns to facial expressions to talking speed from the people around us.As a foreign language learner, you may have already realized that surrounding yourself with native speakers (a form of immersion) can help you achieve correct pronunciation and grammar much more quickly than, say, just practicing with other students. And in fact, immersion has been shown to help adult language learners achieve native-like brain activity.Of course, complete immersion isnt possible for all language students. But it is possible to see yourself  within a community or group that speaks your target language, even if only in your m ind.The Big Secret: EmpathyRecent research shows that  empathy with native speakers  can lead to more native-like language use and even a native-sounding  accent. To truly learn from others, we need to be able to tap into their perspectives, and that requires empathy: seeing ourselves as fundamentally  like, rather than  different from, those  who speak our target language.And this is difficult.When youre learning a language in your 20s, 30s and beyond, you may already have fixed ideas about who you are and what the world is like. In a native English speakers head, for example, theres just one way of addressing another person directly (you) and time is a linear concept, running from behind us to in front of us.But to Aymara speakers, the past lies in front  and the future behind. And in languages such as  Dutch and Spanish, your relationship with and social distance from the person in front of you is built into different pronouns (tú and usted or jij and u), concepts that are appli ed  in every social interaction.So how do we rewire our brains in another language and adopt a childlike openness about languages and the world? How do we expand our minds to reinterpret such basic concepts as  the movement of time or the pronoun you and let ourselves feel like we belong to other groups of people who view the world this way?The Secret to Learning Languages and How Absolutely Anyone Can Do ItMany of the famous polyglots you hear and read about have unlocked this  secret of using empathy to make a genuine personal investment in a foreign language, although they dont all talk about it in the same way or  with these same words.The chef Julia Child famously learned to speak  French  a year after moving to France. According to Child, it was French cuisine that led her to fall in love with  France and its language.Susanna Zaraysky, one of the webs most dynamic polyglots, has had similar experiences in what she calls learning to resonate with a language. According to her, t he secret to mastering a language is tuning into how that language sounds and how it makes you feel, on a physiological as well as a psychological level.There are as many ways to develop an intimate human relationship with a language as there are aspiring learners, and while its helpful to draw from the experiences of others, all learners should strive to find the approach that works best for  them.Here are a few examples of common approaches you can take to falling in love with, resonating with  and truly tapping into a language through empathic connections to people and their cultures.Total  Immersion: Language for (Social) SurvivalPlopping yourself down in rural Vietnam is one way to make sure you really need  to learn Vietnamese like you once needed to learn your mother tongue. Cut off from speakers of your native language, youll form an immediate and genuine investment in Vietnamese as your tool for doing everything you need in  your daily life.The magic of  total  immersion is that youve got no choice but to reach out to those around you. Theres no room for anxiety about your accent or asking a  bilingual friend to sort out a confusing  situation for you.The secret: The key to successful immersion is forming many social bonds in your target language and developing one or two key relationships, like a village best friend or the mom in your homestay. These kinds of relationships will enhance your ability to connect with and learn from others by (subconsciously or consciously) modeling your speech after them.Immersion Environment: Filling Your Social Circle with a Foreign LanguageIf you cant relocate to an area thats totally isolated from your first language, the next best thing is creating an immersion environment at home.Seek out a community of speakers of your target language and focus on them as your  primary social circle. You can start with an international group at your school or the local university, your companys Malaysia or Brazil branch, or a loc al refugee organization or expat group.If youre not in an area where you have access to a university or a multinational company, try online tools such as  Couchsurfing, Meetup  and other language- and travel-oriented social networks to help you discover speakers of your target language living nearby.The secret:  Achieving an immersion environment at home is hard, but it becomes much easier if you  invest in a strong relationship with a romantic partner or best buddy with whom your entire relationship can take place in the target language.This way, your language skills will grow naturally as an extension of that relationship, and your personal investment will pay off in the form of you subtly picking up your partners or friends native speech mannerisms and expressions.Investing in Pop Culture: Embracing Your Inner TV AddictTV, books and the internet all helped you develop your mother tongue vocabulary and absorb culture in your native language.  They can also be powerful tools for un locking another one.The great thing about consuming pop culture as a language learner is that it teaches you to listen before speaking. In conversation, we too often get caught up putting together our next sentence rather than offering the person in front of us the kind of undivided attention necessary for really cracking the code of their language.But when you switch on Netflix in your target language, you can focus all your mental energy on observing the speakers expressions and noting their  choice of words without feeling pressured to say something in response to it.Thats why FluentU is such a great tool for language learners. Its  video-based approach to learning takes authentic clips of TV, movies and everyday situations, and uses them to teach you words, grammar and expressions in real-world  cultural contexts.Just a quick look will give you an idea of the variety of FluentU videos on offer:FluentU really takes the grunt work out of learning languages, leaving you with nothin g but engaging, effective and efficient learning. It’s already hand-picked the best videos for you and organized them by level and topic. All you have to do is choose any video that strikes your fancy to get started!Each word in the interactive captions comes with a definition, audio, image, example sentences and more.Access a complete interactive transcript of every video under the Dialogue tab, and easily review words and phrases from the video under Vocab.You can use FluentU’s unique adaptive quizzes to learn the vocabulary and phrases from the video through fun questions and exercises. Just swipe left or right to see more examples of the word youre studying.The program even keeps track of what you’re learning and tells you exactly when it’s time for review, giving you a 100% personalized experience.Start using FluentU on the website  with your computer or tablet  or, better yet,  download the FluentU app from  the  iTunes store  or  Google Play store.The secret:  You kno w how the best shows leave you desperate to know whats going to happen to your favorite characters in next weeks episode? Find a TV series, a series of books or an ongoing vlog thatll totally absorb  you.This kind of continuity allows you to build up a feeling of personal investment in the characters that mimics the kinds of bonds we form with speakers in real life and encourages us to learn empathetically from them.Investing in Your Career: Working in a Foreign LanguageYour career  isnt just one of the biggest reasons to learn a language, but also one of the best ways of practicing one. It doesnt matter if youre volunteering in a hostel abroad, transfering to your companys Tokyo office, or looking into  one of the many jobs for multilinguals;  as long as your paycheck or your dinner depend on you learning your target language, you can rest assured the necessary personal investment is there.Much like dating or socializing, working in your target language forces you to take the langu age  as seriously as you do your native one. When work meetings, conference calls, negotiations and customer interactions all take place in your target language, youll be using it to accomplish real tasks that require human cooperation and clear communication.And with a reward that comes once or twice a month in the form of the check that pays the bills, you can be sure your motivation wont run out.The secret:  An ideal position for language learners will require you to use your language in many different contexts, including on the phone, with colleagues, with clients, writing reports and giving presentations. Think about all the different ways you use your first language and try to find a role thatll require you to accomplish as many of those same feats as possible.Falling in Love with a Country or CultureThis one is the easiest to do and the hardest to plan for.Julia Child didnt go to France hoping to fall in love with the country and its language, but through her passionâ€"cookin gâ€"she did so anyway.Travel to Italy, Azerbaijan or Ethiopia and fall in love with the people, the foods they eat, the way they dance or how they live their lives. Just like with your first language, youll suddenly find that learning the local language is your only hope for accessing this bright new world youve discovered.We all have passions, and anything from music, to theater, to philosophy, to sports to manga can be the key that unlocks an entire foreign culture and language. And once we discover those passions, finding a community of native speakers with whom to share them, whether online or in person, gives us an  outlet for bonding with others  in the target language.The secret: The more multimedia or multi-sensory your cultural hobby, the better. Literature is a fantastic portal into a language if you already love to read, but if thats your passion then try to supplement it with audiobooks and film versions of your favorite novel to help strengthen all your skills in the la nguage.The Secrets Out: Open Your Eyes, Ears, Heart and Mind to Reach New Linguistic HeightsFor most of us, memorizing vocabulary and drilling grammar rules will just never be enough to attain fluency.Thats because were all human. When the world is full of so many other exciting things to do and inspiring people to meet, who wants to spend the day on worksheets and verb tenses?Instead, if you really want to learn a language naturally, tap into its human element. Level with the natives, and let your shameless, curious inner child come out to play with and learn from them.When language learning practice means coffee with a friend, movies on the couch or a summer abroad, youll  become fluent in a language and a culture before you know it.